While you may want to text your date immediately and say something like “Get home safe,” Kramer believes it’s better to let a little bit of time pass. “Leave some mystery,” he says. “… It’s good to let you and her both reflect on the date, and then follow up within 2-3 days to meet up again.”
Furthermore, how long do guys wait to text after first date?
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Hereof, should I text first or wait?
If you notice it’s always you text him first – pull back a bit, don’t text him and see what he does, see if he gets in touch with you. If he does text after a while when you don’t, but there’s still an imbalance and not as much effort as you’d like, ask yourself: What is this?