Examples of what to text after a first date:
- “Thanks for a really great time. I had fun tonight.”
- “I had a really nice time with you last night. We should do it again sometime.”
- “Had fun tonight! Will you text me when you get home so I know you made it safely?”
- “Last night was super fun. [Inside joke from the date>.”
Keeping this in consideration, how much should you text a girl after the first date?
2 Wait a few hours after the date to see if they text first. 3 Wait 2-3 days after the date for a more traditional approach. 4 Start with 1 text a day and let things develop from there. 5 Text as often as you’d like if you two clicked.
Similarly, who should message first after a date? Some people might say that men should text first (assuming there is a man in the picture) after a date, because of chivalry and tradition. Here’s your PSA that that is so not the case. If you’re interested in someone, make that clear.
In this manner, why would a guy not text you after a date?
Your date might have gotten the impression that you don’t like them. If they assume you aren’t interested, they won’t text you to set up a second date. Ultimately, you might have to reach out if you want to see them again.